Ah you speak volumes. AND to add another class of "helpful people", some people are just born onery, like "sh!tmyfathersays" . They can't ask if you are feeling well without it sounding like an accusation. :whistling2:Somebody I am very close to (and not on the forums ) is one of the most hospitible, niceset persons you'd meet. Until they try to help you. They mean well, but don't see how the application of help ailienates, frustrates and just plain pisses you off.
Then they think you are hard headed, won't listen and are a jerk.
People generally mean well. We just don't see our methods (or posts in this case) as insulting, because that is not what we were trying to accomplish.
Often, I think one posters "help" is another posters "flame".
(am I profound today or what?)